Second, remember what this day is about--the two of you choosing to spend the rest of your lives together and celebrating it with the people in this world who you love. It is all too easy to micro-focus on every detail of the event and forget the big picture.

During your planning process, enjoy the details of the wedding coming together, and communicate them to us, to your florist, photographer, band, or DJ. Then, turn your attention to the excitement of the day--to your feelings for each other and to all of your friends and family coming to share your wedding day. Or, to put it more succinctly--It's your wedding! Enjoy it!